Provider=sqloledb;Data Source=myServerAddress;Initial Catalog=myDataBase;Integrated Security=SSPI;
Use serverName\instanceName as Data Source to use a specific SQL Server instance. Please note that the multiple SQL Server instances feature is available only from SQL Server version 2000 and not in any previous versions.
This connection string (Trusted connection using sqloledb) can be used for connections to
SQL Server 2000 and SQL Server 7.0.
Start over in the connection string reference index.
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