Data Source=D:\folder\myVistaDatabaseFile.vdb4;Open Mode=NonExclusiveReadOnly;
The connection is read only. However, the database is open for other connections and those other connections can have write access.
This connection string (Shared access, connection read only using VistaDBConnection) can be used for connections to
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