I found difficulty to connect a remote db with IIS8 Asp classic, using driver SQLite 3 Driver W32.
I think that the problem are the permissions. In local it's ok, the user IUSR work, but on remote??
Try use a domain account if possible.
If not then try to set up two identical local accounts (same username and password), one on iis server and one on the database server.
Else from that. Any error messages? Did you find a solution?